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Love You Schlong Time



I've seen this tag game around for a bit, and even though I didn't get tagged (and I won't be tagging anyone) I wanted to post this today.

Love you schlong time rules:

1. Pass this game on to 5 people

2. Write down 5-10 ways your relationship ticks and works for you!

3. Include a brief history of how you and your significant other met or a timeline, whichever you prefer :)


Best part? NO WORD LIMIT!

***I'm going to skip the common things I've seen such as trust, honesty, and openness. We have all of these things, but here are some little things that make our relationship work for us.

Get along with your in laws
I cannot be anymore serious about this!!! You don't have to be best friends, but you need to try YOUR best to get along. I am VERY lucky..I LOVE my in laws!!!!!! They are awesomeness!!! I have 2 brother in laws and 2 sister in laws and we're not just family, but friends. Plus the hubby's mom, dad, and grandma are awesomeness too. The saying is true, you don't just marry the man but the whole family.


Me with the in laws..it's my birthday and somehow I'm in the corner..lol

Hubby with my sister at a JLo concert.

At a Harlem Globetrotters game with my (our) niece and nephew.



Take trips together
You don't need to go anywhere far away. Just go somewhere you don't normally go together. It helps you experience new things together and it takes you out of your usual routine.


Cape Cod, MA 2008


Salem, MA Oct 2007



At Newark Airport..waiting for our flight to North Carolina. July 2008

Develop common interest
Common interest such as music, books, or tv shows help you feel closer to one another. It becomes your 'thing'. The hubby and I read a lot of the same books, introduce each other to new music, and are hooked on the same tv shows.



At the Gwen Stefani concert, before the show began.



Get to know each other's friends
My hubby and I are always going out with each others friends. It also helps your trust. I know that you need to trust your partner, but knowing that your hubby's friends are good people makes you feel secure too.






Have date nights!!
Date nights are a must for us!! Sometimes we get so stuck in our routines that it becomes hard to focus completely on the other person. Having regular date nights means you always have time set aside for one another, plus it keeps things fun.





Time line

August 2005
-We meet because we had a few mutual friends in common. We both went to one of the friends' farewell dinner because he was moving. I said hi to everyone and no one bothered to introduce us, so he introduced himself. We flirted most of the night, but we both had just come out of long term relationships so I didn't think much of it.

September 2005
-We meet up at to Six Flags with a few friends. I brought my best friend and ex boyfriend with me. We flirted a little more, but he stayed away because he thought my best friend was my boyfriend. HA!
-We talked on myspace a bit, and he did a crush quiz where he pretty much told me he liked me without saying the words. So high school!! So cute!! lol..I told him I liked him too.

Oct 5, 2005
-Our first date..it was completely unexpected. We had been texting for a little while that we needed to hang out and one day after class he happened to mention that he was near my school, so we decided to meet up. We ended up going to a diner (haha), and then talking in my car ALL night. We had our first kiss this night. Awww...

Oct 12, 2005
-We became 'official'.

March 2006-June 2006 (ish) For a few months in 2006 we had some problems so we were on/off. At his brother's graduation in June 2006 I texted him saying that I missed him and that I wanted to work things out. We've been connected at the hip ever since!

July 2006
-Cape Cod--Our first REAL trip together!! This trip was supposed to just be an over night trip and we stayed there for 4-5 days.

March 2007
-He proposed to me in front of a mountainview. Aww.. My ring box was a penguin, because when penguins find their soulmate they stay with them forever.

Aug 12, 2007
-We moved in together. What a day!! All that could go wrong that day went wrong! We couldn't rent a Uhaul, the super didn't want to give us the keys, and the mattress fell in a puddle! All that and we still didn't fight with one another.

Oct 6, 2007
-We got married. I was freakishly calm that day. I had to calm everyone else down that day. lol Did I mention it was about 100 degress that day. HOT!!! I had bought a sweater just in case I would be chilly, didn't need it! LOL We got married outside by the mayor of our city, then had dinner at a restaurant with all of closest family and friends. There were 22 of us in total. Later that night we had everyone over and had a 'game night'. It sound cheesy, but that was definitely one of the best nights ever!!

*****Today is our 1 year wedding anniversary!! Woo-hoo!! Let's have some stale cake!! LOL..Love ya babes!!

Comments

  1. awWwwww.. sooo cute... sooo in love... im jealous! my bf isnt sooo lovie dovie... well he is... he just doesnt show it much =( i thought u were fillipino at first.. but ur hispanic right?

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  2. love is priceless and thats a nice group of friends u have

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  3. Torrance--Thank you.
    Jesmakeup-Thank you 2! Yes I am hispanic..I'm Puerto Rican and Dominican..

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  4. Baby, what can I say? I love you and evrything about you!! You are the best person to ever come in my life! And what you just posted its the absolute truth! We both married into a great family. Thank you for loving me and showing me what true love is all about! One year down and a lifetime to go! Thank you for loving me! i love you and always will! Muah!!

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  5. ..........insperation! i hope when i get married im as in love as you are <33

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